Tips for Discernment
So you have begun to think that you might have a call to be a sister. What should I do? How do I begin discerning to discover God’s desire for me?
Discernment is a process of making a decision about your life with the help of the Holy Spirit. Here are a few steps that will help you:
Pray - Spend time in prayer each day, specifically seeking clarity for your life. Ask for the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Reflect - Reflect on your life experiences. Take a look at how God has been guiding you all along in your life. Consult significant others. How do they see you? Look at your talents, gifts, limitations.
Gather Information - Make contacts with religious communities. Read and digest the information you receive from them. Do you find yourself resonating with some? Name your honest feelings. Narrow your choices.
Visit - Visit the communities to which you are drawn. Spending time with the sisters in their prayer, community life and ministry will help you discover if their way of life might be right for you. Find out all you can about the community, its spirituality and way of life. The community will also discern if you have the suitability for life in their community.
Be at Peace – A decision about becoming a sister may take some time. Let the process unfold in a peaceful way. Continue to be in contact with the community that seems right for you. You may experience anxiety and doubts, but notice if, at the same time, you feel peace and joy. Does this direction or choice give you life? Then proceed with your decision.
Through discernment, you will discover that God wants only whatever is good for you—whatever brings wholeness and leads to holiness.
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